Women today hold two full-time roles: the one they're paid for, and the one they're not.
Mothers carry 71-73% of the household mental load: the planning, scheduling, and invisible coordination that keeps daily life running. This constant cognitive effort quietly drains focus, creativity, and emotional energy.
Globally, women perform over 75% of unpaid labor. In North America, that's 4.5 hours a day compared to men's 2.8 hours. Tasks like cooking, organizing, emotional caregiving, and family planning rarely get acknowledged or compensated.
And despite doing more, women in North America earn 21 cents less for every dollar men earn. Even with higher education, women graduates earn less at every level.
The result is chronic stress, decision fatigue, and limited bandwidth for creative or strategic work. Higher rates of burnout. Reduced career mobility.
AI has the potential to change this.
When used intentionally, AI can automate repetitive mental tasks, streamline organization and planning, and help women reclaim cognitive and emotional bandwidth. It can enable more meaningful, high-impact work with less exhaustion.
The goal is to integrate AI as a supportive layer that lightens load, restores clarity, and aligns with your natural way of working.
10 Ways to Intentionally Integrate AI
1
Start with one task that drains you.
Don't try to integrate AI everywhere at once. Pick one repetitive task that eats your time and energy. Figure out a way to let AI handle that first.
2
Use AI to remember, not just to create.
AI can track details, organize information, and keep things in order so you don't have to hold everything in your head.
3
Ask AI to think with you.
Use it as a thought partner. Ask it to help you explore ideas, challenge your thinking, or organize your thoughts when you're stuck.
4
Stick with one platform until you've learned its limits.
Don't jump between tools. Get comfortable with one (ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, Copilot) and learn what it can and can't do before exploring others. Don't take on unnecessary overwhelm.
5
Treat AI like a collaborator, not a magic button.
The more context you give it, the better it supports you. Be specific about what you need and how you work.
6
Let AI handle the mental load tasks.
Planning, organizing, research, scheduling—these are exactly what AI is good at. Let it carry what's weighing you down.
7
Use it to reduce decision fatigue.
When you're overwhelmed by options, ask AI to help you narrow them down or think through the pros and cons.
8
Don't expect perfection on the first try.
AI gets better the more you work with it. Refine your prompts, give feedback, and iterate until it gives you what you need.
9
Build workflows, not one-off tasks.
Once you find something that works, turn it into a repeatable process. That's how AI becomes a tool you start to rely on daily.
10
Give yourself permission to lean on it.
You no longer have to do everything yourself. AI can support you in ways that used to require hiring help. Let it. Thinking 'I don't want to rely on AI' or that 'AI is cheating' are false narratives being sold to women to keep us small.
About Vicky
I help women business owners integrate AI into their work in a way that lightens their mental load and gives them back time for what matters.
I first taught AI workflows at a training institute, then began my own AI education & consulting practice. What I've learned is that generic AI training doesn't work. And women and men approach AI differently. Men want results. Women want alignment (and results naturally follow).
The AI Integration Sprint is a 30-day program where we build customized workflows for your business so AI becomes something that supports you.